Wardrobe Overhaul

I have decided to have a wardrobe makeover. I think it would be good for me to have new clothes to wear in the next month or so. A new wardrobe for me signals a fresh start. I usually do some major shopping when there are significant changes in my life - positive or negative. Being that the management program I am currently in is about to end and new career challenges are about to reveal themselves, I think it is time to shop anew. So here are the pieces that inspire me. My fashion sense has always been casual preppy but I like to mix it up every now and then. The cut and fit of the garment is key.

The suit: Every man should have at least one. Tailored suits are always better than off the rack. But if you must do off the rack, then pick one that makes your shoulders broader, and your waist slimmer. Slim trousers are in. Baggy is out. 2-button suits is the most modern yet classic at the same time.



The sunglasses: I am partial to Ray-Ban classic aviators. I do not even care if my sister said the style does not suit my face. But I am open to change in that department. To be honest, I have yet to determine which shape of sunglasses look best on me.



Trousers: Slim, Straight, and Flat-front. 'Nough said.



Flip-Flops: I am in love with these Lacoste Tirage Flip-flops.



Shorts: I am kinda over the plaid shorts. Slim and tailored are the buzz words for shorts in 2010. I wear them a little bit above the knee.



Cardigan: I rarely wear them simply because of the climate but I just love these ones from Shades of Greige



The Perfect White shirt: Every man should have a perfect-fitting white shirt. Flexible and classic. These are sculptees - a new breed of men's undergarment designed to accentuate the pecs and make the waist look slimmer. It does for men what spanks do for women. Must have one.



Running shoes: I recently bought these pair of red running shoes from Adidas. Don't you just love it? Like really love it? Because I love it!



Anyway, that's it for now. I have to build my corporate wardrobe and weekend ensembles for day and night.

Promising Prospects

The past couple of months have been a blessing. Life is good.

Though experiencing some possibly major setbacks, my family is still intact and ready to face the challenge of a lawsuit head on. My pathetic excuse of a father has decided to file a civil case against me and my siblings over a property that my grandfather had legally donated to us. I guess when you are over 60 and have nothing to show for, you turn desperate. My siblings and I have talked it out and our message is clear - sige, mag-ubusan tayo ng yaman. bring it on!

I can slowly sense my career taking off. I believe it! The management associates program I am currently in is about to end and I am anxious and excited to find out my permanent assignment. It is no secret that I am targetting a head office position in any of the following departments - trust services, treasury, and fund sourcing. My assignment would help me decide on my next career moves. If satisfied, then I shall invest in other cv-building initiatives like enrollment in a foreign language course for example. If dissatisfied, then I guess exit strategies must be implemented.

My love life is still looking up. We are still on our honeymoon stage when almost everything is peachy. I do see some red flags. There are still some important issues we need to work on and there are certain things I still need to accept. But overall, I can honestly say I am happy. But I guess happiness is different from contentment. It makes me wonder if I am the monogamous type. I have proven to myself that I can make a commitment with another person I love but I have yet to prove to myself if I can be faithful. I have always believed that you can not find everything you need and want in 1 person. That thing they say where you find someone who can fill the voids in your life - that other half or that better half - well I think it is mostly bullshit. I do not think that person really exists. You may find someone who can make you happy and inspire you to be a better person, but that person can not propel you to greater heights in all the mountains you wish to climb. Do I even make sense? Meanwhile, I have started to watch an old series called Queer as Folk and the aggressive, good-looking, and permiscuous character named Brian said something that somehow resonated with me. "I do not believe in relationships. I believe in fucking. It is direct, honest, and efficient. It does not have the complications of a relationship brought about by so-called love which in most cases is founded on lies and half-truths." It got me thinking.

Although I may entertain some questionable thoughts on relationships, I can still say I am relatively content. Hmmmm...or maybe not. I guess it is human nature to want more things and strive for better things in life. I guess when all the basic facets of my life make the grade, it is but natural for me to aspire for other things that can give me a stronger sense of fulfillment. Hence, I have been thinking about going into business. I have some options. I can franchise or start my own. But right now I am thinking that I can franchise to start then find something I am really passionate about and I feel like I can excel in and build my own business from it. The opportunities look bright.

Now I wonder how the next few months would shape up. The prospects are promising.